The greater you are, the greater a good mate you can find.
According to Bible, before creating everyone, every male & female is already pair one-to-one. God leaves everyone a Purpose & Meaning in Life & that is that special someone is waiting for you no matter how long you have waited.
(Top Gun: "you never never leave your Wingman.") (French Emperor Napoleon has the whole Europe under him when he sticks to his Empress Josephine. When he leaves Her & fight Russia, he later loses his French Emperorship.)
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