The more satisfy (more pornographic firewoods) the greater the sexual desire (greater sexual desire fire). To dim a fire, simply ignore it. No more satisfy (no more pornographic firewoods, no more looking at females etc), slowly the fire will die out.
Is like reading Cstan98 No Adultery Stories, Cstan98 Guan Sage No Adultery Scripture etc on this website. But, but, but ..... a little bit of water cannot dim a 30 years old big sexual desire fire. Especially if you have been exposed to a lots of firewoods (beautiful female walking around, internet pornography etc). The ONLY SOLUTION is no more firewoods (do not look at beautiful females + do not look at pornography) + virtue water daily (read more Cstan98 No Adultery Stories, Cstan98 Guan Sage No Adultery Scripture etc on this website). You will feel your sexual desire fire dimming away. You will feel more in control of your life & yourself. You will feel no longer like a pervert or shameless male. Dignity & Self-control & Self-discipline & Self-confidence will be gained. You will feel more energetic & awake. You will feel more like a Jedi & closer to God.
May work for heroin, cigarette, food addictions. They are basically the same, desires.
My Rule. It is stupid to have 100% No Sexual Desire Cultivation = a dead wood with no feeling. Best is 90% = No Adultery + 10% = LOOKING at females when the need arise. (*Note the word LOOKING = NO TOUCH.)